by Julie Rice
I have written on this site before and would like to continue my story. I was married for 30 years to a narcissistic abuser, who is still trying to control my life. I am at my wits end as to how to get this evil person out of my life. As it turns out, even though my divorce was final in January, my ex still refuses to remove his name from my home. I also still have no medical insurance and have not seen a doctor since November of 2014 after having major spine surgery last year. I am also on disability for Battered Women's Stress Syndrome and was put on disability 11 years ago. So not only did my ex disable me and prevent me from earning an income, now it seems that Social Security will not cover my medical insurance. Is there anyone out there that can please help me?
I'm alone and desperate and I really don't know where to turn for help. I had a very bad divorce attorney whom I fired and have moved from CA to Az. To top everything off, our disabled son is losing his cash benefits from Social Security with the only explanation being we moved to another state. My ex had refused to pay any child support for our disabled son, so my meager alimony and SSI benefits are barely supporting the two of us. How can I afford any medical insurance coverage, a house payment on a home that's not even our own, and all the bills that come with life?
He makes over $125,000.00 a year and has no house payments, carpayments or insurance payments that I'm aware of. Why do I still have to have recurring nightmares and have to live under his roof that was given to me in the divorce? I thought finally getting away from that abusive, evil man, that my son and I could try and have a normal life free of abuse, but that just hasn't happened. I'm really thinking of just giving up and calling it quits on this life.
It seems it doesn't matter if you physically and emotionally abuse someone because I do not see him suffering any punishment. It is us who were abused that seem to still be paying the price for believing in the judicial system of California.